The mind cannot process the negative.
If you think “__________” cannot happen for you, the mind is only focused on “________” not happening for you.
This presence of mind radiates into the physical. Everything you do physically will be anchored to that mental outcome and produce a “self fulfilling prophecy.”
On the other hand, if you think about how “_________” is going to happen for you, then your mind is now processing a different end result.
And as a result, your actions will be different. Where the head goes, the body follows.